Robert Harmon | Post 1831: De Soto, Mo.
Harmon, who joined the VFW in 1990, began his recruiting stint with VFW in 2006. He has earned the Century Award (recruiting at least 100 members) four times. The most members he has recruited in one year is 140.
The Vietnam vet said if he’s at the grocery store or filling up his car at the gas station, he tries to look for people wearing clothing indicating his or her veteran status. He also looks at haircuts, as that often is a clue if someone is active duty.
“I once saw a guy with a Fort Knox cap,” Harmon said. “He had been a veteran for 15 years and no one had ever bothered to ask him to join the VFW.”
Harmon also attends pre- and post-deployment ceremonies for Missouri National Guard units. He sets up a booth and hands out copies of VFW magazine and recruiting materials. He traveled to all 13 VFW Districts in Missouri this year to help boost recruiting efforts with training.
The Navy vet said with recruiting, the easy part is asking because the worst that can happen is the person says “no.” He said sometimes veterans have objections or opinions about VFW, but Harmon maintains that it’s best to come back with a positive response.
“I’ve had people curse me up one side and down the other,” he said. “But if you raise your voice or challenge them in some way, you will lose them.”
Harmon said the most frequent question he gets is, “What’s in it for me?” He uses the VFW fact sheet to report all of the work VFW does for veterans and families and responds with: “You may not need us now, but you will.”
Harmon said each person is unique, and recruiters should not assume an older vet is more likely to sign up. In his experience, some younger vets don’t think they need the VFW, while some Vietnam vets remember not being welcome 50 years ago and decide not to join today’s VFW.
“Always remember that they are veterans first,” said Harmon, who adds that he is 80 percent more likely to sign up life members than annual memberships. “The common ground is we are all veterans and we shouldn’t differentiate between continents and decades.”